‘What would be GREAT?’ will serve you. ‘Why ME?’, unnerve you. Leave it alone. Try the first one on. What would be GREAT?
‘I’m sorry you didn’t understand me’ is NOT an apology. It’s an INSULT. ‘I’m sorry I wasn’t more clear.’ NICE. Apology accepted.
Dislike for you usually comes from one of these: They see you as a threat. They hate themselves. They want to be YOU. Love them.
When you do MORE listening and LESS interrupting, you get less *erupting* and more Understanding. More or less? No, More AND Less.
The view from the TOP will change your view of the struggle. Keep going. Enjoy the VIEW. You earned it.
You can’t erase a mistake, but you can learn and grow from it, which is kind of the same thing.
You can push a loyal person to the point they no longer care or love someone who doesn’t care to the point they do. Ready? LOVE.
What do you call someone who admits and corrects mistakes? Respected. What do you call someone who doesn’t? Rejected.
Good Goal: One that makes you want to DO IT right now — to jump out of your chair and into Action. Don’t have one? Find one!
‘Fake it till you make it’ pales in comparison to ‘Don’t fake it. Be your Authentic Self. Do your BEST and you’ll make it.’
Don’t give a flip about a flop that tempts you to stop a good thing. Do a flip-flop on the flop and if it works, don’t stop.
If you build it, will they come? Maybe. But, if you let them HELP you build it, absolutely. And they’ll bring others to show them.