Shoulda, coulda, woulda doesn’t DO it. But, I can, I will, I did — DID it. You can, too. Do it.
The step that succeeds is often revealed by the one that doesn’t. Watch your steps.
Ignore the facts and you get the *whacks*. Ouch.
Too much, too little, too fast — won’t last!
‘Why not?’ questions expose weak excuses that hold you back. Why not YOU? Why not ME? Why not US? Why not NOW? Why not go for it?
Mistake #1: Making the mistake. Mistake #2: Not admitting it. Mistake #3: Blaming others. Three strikes: You’re OUT. Admit it!
You can fail by NOT doing anything but you can’t succeed with that strategy. What would be good to do? Begin.
How to Deal with Criticism: Yield to ‘Get over it’ and Deal with ‘Get better.’
‘You may be right’ is good. ‘I was wrong’ is good. ‘I can do better’ is good. Say and mean all three and it’s ALL good.
‘What could be’ is a much better friend than ‘What could have been.’ It’s not too late to be friends with ‘What could be.’
1-problem divided by 2-problem-solvers = Problem solved in half the time. If one of the 2 IS the problem, ‘Hello, long division!’
How to stay happily together: Work through problems together.