You know that little rascal who’s always pushing your buttons? Well, here’s a fun thought: that kiddo might just be a mini-you from the past, before you knew what you didn’t know.
It’s like looking in a time-traveling mirror, right? And it’s a great reminder that we were all kids once, trying to figure out this big, confusing world.
But here’s the thing: it’s also a chance for some major empathy and connection. ❤️
Maybe they’re expressing a need, a fear, or a desire that you used to have, or still have. Maybe they are showing you something that you need to work on, or appreciate, or let go of.
Next time it happens, try this:
Take a deep breath (or five). ♀️ Try to see the world through their eyes. Get down to their level, maintain eye contact, and use a gentle tone of voice.
Remember that little YOU. What did they need back then?
Show that understanding to the kiddo in front of you. Listen more than you speak, validate their feelings, and offer support. It might just change everything and save your sanity. ✨