Okay, there IS a NO-FAIL, SURE WAY no one will ever find out: Don’t do it.
A good reason to forgive someone? Do you still want them in your life? That’s a good reason. That and Peace of Mind.
A minor nuisance is a MAJOR nuisance if you MAJOR in minors. Don’t. A Ph.D. in I’m-Over-It awaits you. (Peace, harmony, Delight).
No solution to a problem means it’s a truth to be accepted. Accept it. Peace awaits. So, there is a solution to the problem? Yep.
Giving others the benefit of the doubt beats sparking altercations and exchanging angry shouts. Make it a good reason.
What are the perks of being *appropriate* in thoughts, words, and behavior? Self-Respect. True friends. Peace of mind. Wow.