Pain is an invitation to change something. If you don’t RSVP, it escalates to a demand. Demands are more painful than invites.
What you’re doing right now is the perfect design for what you’re getting. Want a different outcome? Change something.
If you apologize and nothing changes, you didn’t mean it. Not really. Change is PROOF you meant it. Change something.
Happy? Yes? Keep doing what you’re doing. No? Do you want to be happy? No? Keep doing what you’re doing. Yes? Change something.
If you change nothing, nothing will change. If you change something, something will change. If it’s for better, that’s SOMETHING.