You didn’t change. You found yourself.
Change: the result of a mind that has been opened or a heart that has been broken. Change is a Choice. Choose WELL.
‘I don’t want to until I do’ takes you to *want to* faster than ‘I don’t want to.’
Attitude is nothing more (or less) than a conscious choice practiced into a habit. How to change a *tude* to positive? Practice.
Trying to change an unhappy person will make you VERY unhappy. Just be your happy self. They’ll choose Happy when they’re ready.
If you live in a shack and don’t want to escape, you’re home. If you’re in a palace and want to escape, you’re in prison. Escape.
To believe you can’t change or grow removes the drive to do so. You can. Believe it. Now, *drive* on to a better life.
You can’t change what you refuse to face. About face. Change what you can. Accept what you can’t. Learn from it. You CAN do this.
You can slip back into old ways where misery awaits you or skip into new ones where joy greets you. OK, you don’t have to skip.
When you decide ‘I’m not gonna live like this anymore’ and you mean it, the means are provided to back up your decision.
If you change nothing, nothing will change. If you change something, something will change. If it’s for better, that’s SOMETHING.